Imagine the look in her eyes as she wonders if someone else can give her what you can’t. Act before she walks away for good.

I could tell you what you need to know in two sentences, but it wouldn’t make a difference unless you truly understand it and can apply it.

When I was younger, lasting in bed was never a problem for me. My experiences were different—I could go for hours, sometimes needing the girl to tell me when she’d had enough. It felt natural. But things changed over time. I went from seeing women as people I wanted to connect with to objects of desire, and suddenly, I couldn’t even make it a minute.

During lockdown, I started feeling frustrated, comparing myself, feeling the impact of porn, and wondering why I was struggling with something that used to be easy. I went from wondering why some guys couldn’t last, to experiencing it myself.

It was then I realized the answer wasn’t about tricks or techniques, but a shift in my mindset. I looked at it differently. When I thought about how a woman sees intimacy—how she is relaxed, in control, enjoying each moment—I knew I had to approach things like that too. Sex is about being present, not about trying to hit a goal.

What changed everything for me wasn’t a tip or a hack, but resetting my mind around intimacy. And that’s what my ebook is all about—a guide to lasting longer by looking at things from a new perspective.